Please can you issue guidance on the following matter
My wife and I married in 2005 in XXX, we did not register the marriage in XXX, some years later in 2011 we parted due to several reasons, things progressed to court and she issued divorce proceedings in XXX, I opposed them on the grounds the XXX court had no jurisdiction on the matter as we were both from XXX & marriage was conducted in XXX We have 3 young children, I did not want to go down the divorce route instead I wanted some form of Arbitration, leading to reconciliation So I approached the legal system in XXX as that’s where the Nikah was performed, again they tried in vain to make contact , nothing positive was achieved I even at one point pleaded for the sake of the children At no point did I ever utter the words Thalaaq verbally or intentionally write them down as such, but I did ask my counsel in XXX to issue a letter to pressurize my wife to reconcile for the sake of the children or face the Court with the threat of Divorce, again no response came In 2015 the XXX court issued a degree on grounds of unreasonable behaviour and told me to seek legal advice We have since reconciled and would like to know that from an Islamic Shariah perspective we are not committing any sin please could you help as I have performed Umrah since and we are both Allah Fearing ,We want to start living together but don’t want to be committing Zina
